Things are getting awkward between us..didn't want to it to turn out like that...but haiz..i wish we could just remain at the friends level and go back to the times where we could talk and joke naturally...

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This week went back to work..went out to lunch with my colleagues on one of the days...while in the car they started talking about the topic on marriage..one of my colleague said: 婚前和婚后都不一样，婚前有爱情但婚后久了就没有了爱情只有感情；结婚不只是两人而已，是牵扯到很多人.(There's a difference between before and after marriage, love exist before marriage but it does not exist after marriage, only affection exists; Marriage is just not about 2 parties but it involves many parties.)Somehow, I seem to agree with what he said. Not that I have been through that before..LOL...but what he said actually does makes a lot of sense. Just look around ourselves, perhaps the most perfect example would be our parents. Do they behave like they are still in those hot honeymoon times saying and doing sweet stuffs to each other or go pa-tal-ing together every few other days like they used to be before marriage? Most probably not. Everything they do, they will have to think twice like: how about the children? how are they going to settle themselves? concern about this think about that....But there's definitely affection because they still care for each other giving them the utmost priority=)